What is the erotic blueprint?
Empower yourself and discover how to feed, speak, heal and expand your own and your partner’s Erotic Blueprint. This new type of sexual education can help you expand the erotic passion you feel in your relationship and be a key tool in unlocking an extraordinary life.
What is your sexual blueprint and why is it important?
As discovered by Damon and Erika, determining your sexual blueprint not only allows you to communicate your own desires to your partner more effectively, but helps you to also understand their needs and turn ons.
What is a shapeshifting erotic blueprint?
This is essentially an amalgamation of all erotic blueprint types; someone who’s turned on by sensual, sexual, kinky, and energetic types of stimulation. The superpower of a shapeshifter is that they can shapeshift to be an amazing lover to anyone.
What are erotic blueprint superpowers and shadow side?
Each Erotic Blueprint has superpowers and shadow sides, says Ally Jewel, a certified Erotic Blueprint coach who shared a TikTok outlining the Erotic Blueprints, which has amassed more than 1 million views. Jewel likens superpowers to turn-ons and shadow sides to turnoffs.
What is core erotic blueprint?
You can discover sex techniques everywhere, but understanding your Core Erotic Blueprint™ is a transformative system designed to inspire deep connection, hot passion and sensual satisfaction. It provides you with compassion and understanding about your own, as well as your partner's sexual needs and turn-ons.
Who is jaiya?
Jaiya is the founder of Soul Water Rising, a global rehumanizing mission to eradicate oppression that has donated thousands of Jaiya's books in support of social healing, and offers grants and scholarships to displaced and vulnerable youth.
What is a shapeshifter sexual?
Shapeshifter: Someone who is turned on by it all. If you like all of the above, then you just might be a Shapeshifter. Shapeshifters love all the variety and they have a huge capacity for pleasure. They love having a long time to languish in all the things. They are wonderful lovers with a high Erotic Intelligence.
What does sensual erotic blueprint mean?
Erotic blueprint #2: Sensual A Sensual Type needs to be relaxed to open to sexual connection and turn-on. If you need to create the right environment to be turned on and get excited when the right lighting, music and smells are present, this might your blueprint.
Transcript
Welcome to another exciting episode of the Get Yourself Optimized, I’m your host Stephan Spencer. I have with us today, Jaiya, who is an incredible, award-winning sexologist. She knows all about sex. She’s really passionate about combining deep love with amazing, hot, juicy sex lives and she’s the author of 4 best selling books.
Checklist of Actionable Takeaways
Learn your sexual blueprint by checking out missjaiya.com and completing her quiz.
About Miss Jaiya
Jaiya is one of the most progressive and well educated sexual wellness experts. She works with couples and singles to help them overcome intimacy issues, deepening connection, and communication, leading to the creation of more fulfilling relationships. Jaiya holds certifications as a Somatic Sexologist, Sexological Bodyworker, and Tantra Teacher.
Understand what a great sex education is
Great sex education doesn’t shame you; it doesn’t shame other people, either. Learning about erotic pleasure helps you to make great choices, to honor yourself and others and to create the freedom to explore and experiment safely.
Find a mentor to help you learn about erotic passion
Who you seek as a mentor for advancing your sex education is very important. There are a lot of great sexuality educators out there, but I’ve also seen mentors who shame people or give poor advice.
1. Energetic
The hallmark of an energetic is that “they’re turned on by space, anticipation, and tease,” Jewel says. “Often, [energetics] want to have that safety, like ‘I need to know that I'm safe, and I can feel your energy from across the room. I can feel the energy in my body.
2. Sensual
The hallmark of a sensual is that they “need to feel relaxed in order to have sex,” says Jewel. “The sensual is turned on by all the senses. They might be that friend that you walk into the bakery with and they're like, ‘Oh my God, can you smell that!?’”
4. Kinky
The kinky Erotic Blueprint is turned on by anything that’s taboo for them, says Jewel, which is hyper-personalized in effect. For example, “if somebody…only had missionary sex all of their life, and then they go and they do something that's different for them—doggy-style, whatever it is for them—that can be considered taboo.”
5. Shapeshifter
A shapeshifter’s hallmark is wanting more and more and more, says Jewel. As you might have guessed, the shapeshifter can easily flow in and out of any Blueprint—which has implications for their superpowers and shadow sides, alike.
